Are you very shy when it comes to new surroundings,
such as starting a new class or moving to a new area? Sometimes, it is
necessary to overcome your shyness and speak confidently. By doing
this, it can help you not only to share your ideas properly to others,
but also to learn communicating with others. Here are a few steps to
consider when speaking with confidence.

Steps

1. Learn how to have conversations with people. Your
   ideas or opinions may not always be accepted by others, but this is
   nothing unusual. Open your mouth, express your beliefs! This will
   improve your courage.
2. Don’t be afraid and speak loudly. If you speak in
   a low voice, not only will others not be able to hear what you say, but
   you will also portray a submissive demeanor, which suggests the
   opposite of a confident one.
3. Make eye contact when you speak. For one thing, it is polite for others. Also, eye contact will help others to listen to your thinking carefully.
4. Praise yourself everyday! This will promote your
   own confidence, which is important when you speak. With more
   confidence, people will take your thinking more seriously.

Tips

• Don’t be nervous when you make mistakes. Human error is far from
  being a new concept — nobody is perfect! It is normal for everyone to
  make mistakes. Just calm down and keep speaking bravely.
• Try and try again! This may be difficult for a shy person at first,
  but you need to force yourself to speak, and not seclude your thoughts.
  If you have some ideas, then try to speak out! Don’t just keep them in
  your head.
• If you have self confidence issues, try to think that you are the
  only one who has sound knowledge about the topic. Then go ahead and
  impart your knowledge to the audience in an effective way.
• Remember that there is a fine line between confidence and
  arrogance. Don’t portray an exaggerated amount of confidence, or you
  will come off as arrogant, believing that your ideas are better than
  the ideas of everyone else.